As baby stuff lay all around our apartment, we try to gather the information we were given. “Your baby has no heartbeat.” “I’m so sorry for your lost” I’m confused, heartbroken, in denial, all the while anger ensues. Why would God do this to me again? Why is this my reality? I’m a good person? I try my hardest to do what’s right, obey God’s commands and despite that I have struggled the last four years financially, physically, emotionally, and mentally. Why am I here? Why doe

Grief can hit like a sudden storm, leaving us shaken and lost. In 2017, I faced a devastating blow when someone I considered a brother was killed in a hit-and-run. That moment marked the beginning of a long, painful journey through grief and depression. This is Part Two of my story, sharing how loss shaped my life and how I found ways to heal. The Moment Everything Changed He was just a year older than me, the son of my mother’s ex-boyfriend, but we stayed close like family.

Loss is a heavy word. It carries weight that settles deep inside, often silent and unseen. I want to be vulnerable and share my own story of loss. This is Part One of that journey—a heartfelt account of the first loss I remember and how it shaped my understanding of grief. I believe that to truly face loss, it must be spoken about, aired out, and brought into the light. The Day Everything Changed I was 14 when my grandfather passed away. He had been battling diabetes for year

I wrote this a month after losing my preterm son. My heart was heavy and aching, and I desperately searched for support. But I found it hard to connect with people willing to openly talk about loss. Many tiptoed around me and the pain I was going through. Some said, “It will be okay.” What do they really know? They are not the all-seeing God who perfectly planned my life. They don’t know what’s coming next, so how can they speak so confidently about the future? Sometimes, I w

Grief is a universal experience that touches everyone at some point in their lives. The loss of a loved one can leave us feeling shattered, lost, and overwhelmed. Understanding grief is essential not only for those who are grieving but also for friends and family who want to support them. This blog post will explore the emotional responses to losing loved ones, the stages of grief, and practical ways to cope with this profound experience. The Nature of Grief Grief is not a li

Grief is a universal experience, yet it can feel incredibly isolating. When we lose someone we love, the world can seem darker and more challenging to navigate. Understanding that grief is a natural response to loss is the first step toward healing. This blog post aims to provide practical tips and insights to help you navigate your grief journey, offering support and guidance along the way. Understanding Grief Grief is not a linear process. It can come in waves, often catchi